How To Make Rich Forward Steady Progress

I don’t like frogs… never have and probably never will. It’s one of those things, I guess. But this tree critter caught my attention. He was trying to climb a glass wall. By the time I took this pic, it was already a few feet off the ground.

The toe pads on frog’s feet allow it to climb almost anything. On each hexagonal pad there are little ‘cute’ dimples that squirt sticky mucus to a dry surface, making it wet, so the pad can act like a suction cup and the frog can stick to it… I’m thinking Spiderman like (although it’s neither a spider or a man).

The interesting thing about this determined creature is that it would take a couple a steps up and then slide back down some. It happened again and again. Maybe his ‘squirter’ had a leak.

The whole sliding scene reminded me of me, not because my feet are odd looking or because I sound like Kermit The Frog, which I don’t, but because of the times I have felt like I was making little progress, if any. Have you been there?

When we were young, my wife moved the high mountains of New Mexico. We were almost a mile high in altitude and the temperature dipped below zero a few times. One thing we Floridians quickly learned about that kind of weather was not to hang clothes to dry in single digit temperature. T-shirts and underwear became stiff like wood! Try putting those suckers on…

We also learned that the floor would ice over in patches and we needed to be careful where we stepped and how we walked otherwise we would slip and fall.

Maintaining steady progress can be tricky!
If you’re not really into frogs, sorry about the above pic…

Anyways, steady progress in life can be tricky, unexpected twist and turns, people, mistakes we make, and other things can threaten to keep us from making rich forward steady progress.

Psalm 18:32-33 is a perfect word to help us keep moving ahead without losing faith,

“God arms me with strength, and he makes my way perfect. He makes me as sure footed as a deer, enabling me to stand on mountain heights.” Psalm 18:32-33

I think of mountain deer I’ve seen on tv that skip, hop, and jump from one jagged rock to another on the edge of a nasty cliff. The deer seem so effortless and crazy accurate as it make their way to the top. God wants to make us like that deer.

God promises to equip/strengthen us so we can climb with confidence. But that deer-like mobility and proficiency will come from Him and Him only.

When we’re about Jesus on a daily basis, the Lord in turn provides us skill, maneuverability (sheesh that’s a long word), and wisdom to adjust and survive what comes. And, like the deer, sometimes we move, sometimes we stand in place for a while, but our eyes are always on safely getting to a higher place.

One more thing, remember that the results of achieving our goals are not as important as the kind of man/woman we are becoming on our journey there.

You and I wish there was an easy paved road to the top but there’s no such ‘animal’.

The road to the goal ahead may be steep but don’t ever give up trying! And don’t ever become like that frog on the window, taking steps but slipping back. You are deer-like! You were designed by God to overcome until you reach your highest purpose.

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How To Dig Out Your Own Great Escape

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Almost 75 years ago a group of 76 men of the Allied Forces dug a 30 foot deep and 300 foot long tunnel to escape the brutal Stalag Luft III POW Nazi concentration camp. The story was made into a movie called The Great Escape. 

My good friend Laurence Green wrote a book about it called, Great War To Great Escape: The Two Wars Of Flight Lieutenant Bernard ‘Pop’ Green MC. It’s a great read of the ingenuity and tenacity of those men doing all they could to find life and freedom.

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How To Figure It Out Before You Absolutely Tank

That’s my hand after I sliced into it. I had just sharpened one of my cutting knives and was in the process of thinning out some chicken breasts for dinner when the blade sliced through the protein like butter and right into my metacarpus…or the soft inside of my hand.

Cutting into my hand has happened to me many a times, but I have a love affair with knives, sharp ones, and I don’t know why. The problem is that my knife fascination often leaves me sliced or punctured and in lots of pain.

I was helping my good friend Johnny at church replace an exit sign. Some of the plastic needed to be trimmed off with a sharp blade and I jumped to it. Johnny handed me his sharp pocket knife and said, “Be careful with it…” I interrupted him by saying, “I know what I’m doing ‘brah’; I’m a professional.” The moment those words came out of my mouth that pocket knife tore deep into my hand. There was lots of blood, screaming, and jumping and running in place. Sadly that scene has been repeated in my life waaayyy too often.
That’s it! That’s the culprit that left my hand looking like a mummy.

The real question is, how long am I going to keep getting hurt before I figure out the knife thing?

This all brought one Bible verse to mind that has absolutely nothing to do with knifes but everything to do with a bad outcome from a not-so-smart idea. Check it out, “There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death.” Proverbs 14:12 NIV (1985 Edition)

Two words from that verse jump off this blog and get right in our face, ‘seems right.’ In the Hebrew language ‘seems right’ have to do with the appearance of something good, smooth, and pleasant.

Picture this horror movie scene: The poor victim is lost in some scary forest when she comes to a fork in the dirt road. The path to the left looks dark and scary while the path to the right is sunny with colorful flowers and chirping birdies. So she goes right thinking it’s the best way to go not knowing that there’s some psycho at the end of her path.

Ok…so that’s kind of grim but the wise man of Proverbs wasn’t trying to paint a pretty picture either. People in our culture are making life decisions devoid of spirituality because they seem logical, but their lives won’t have a happy ending.

My problem with knives may be carelessness and then I have to pay a short term price because healing usually happens.

A casual or indifferent approach to God, on the other hand, has bad, lasting, eternal consequences.

The apostle Paul wrote, “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life [in heaven] through Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 6:23 NLT (parenthesis mine)

When I first heard about this it took me a while to believe, but God helped me figure it out and I put my faith in Christ. Now I know I’m not going to tank in the end but live in eternal bliss in heaven. The Bible tells me so!

Death without the love of God forever is too high a risk to take. Why gamble heaven when Jesus made a clear way for us?

I still have not figured out my weird attraction to sharp knives and I’m sure there are more painful memories yet to be made (hopefully few). But when it comes to our end and the afterlife, the matter was figured out and settled for me (and you) by Jesus Christ when He died at the cross some 2,000 years ago.

What’s your thought? Please leave me a comment.

How To Have Fun With Your Bright Light

I recently took the above pic of St Kitts from a Lido Deck of the Carnival Sunshine. It reminded me of how President Ronald Reagan used to refer to our beloved United States as ‘a shinning city on a hill.’ The Gipper borrowed that thought from an old puritan preacher by the name of John Winthrop. John and his companions were heading to America on a ship called Arbella in 1630 to establish a new community that would be a positive example to everyone who saw them.  

John had borrowed the words from another preacher, the BEST ONE EVER… Jesus Christ. In a sermon known as the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus compared our lives to a city on a hill. Check it out, 

“You are the light of the world—like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father.” Matthew 5:14-16 NLT

The Lord was saying that a life well lived for God is like a lightsaber that beams out brightly to others with a message of peace and hope!

I don’t know know how you view the society you live in but if God’s standards are the true measurement – and they are – then, we live in a dark world! BUT WAIT… before you accuse me of being all gloom and doom, you need to know that I am not. I am one of the most optimistic guys you’ll ever meet. The reality of our present times, though, is that the news are bad, disasters happen, there’s hunger and poverty and diseases threatening humanity, people fight and lie to each other, nations threaten, neighbors disrespect each other, life is not considered sacred anymore, there is no absolute truth and good is in the eye of the beholder (even when you become the victim), we have to deal with broken relationships, broken promises, broken dreams and aspirations…basically we are broken people longing for hope, for something better to come along.

The difference between those of us who have chosen to follow God in heaven through faith in Jesus Christ and those who choose not to is that the Lord has lit us up from the inside. We are like energizer bunnies and God’s Holy Spirit is providing the charge! TA-DAAA!!!

Have you ever found yourself in a very dark place with no light? 

My mind races back to a time when I was a teenager in Puerto Rico. Late one night a group of us ventured deep into an old, big abandoned, dilapidated building of another time. We had heard scary stories of paranormal activity happening in there and went in to investigate…but we were going to do it all in the dark. As we felt our way around we kept moving through doors and passageways until someone said he heard a weird noise. Another person lit up a match and that little flame of light revealed that we were in what seemed like open jail cells. Needless to say, everyone turned on whatever light we had and ran out of there.

The Lord Jesus said that the light we Christians have within can encourage and help someone caught in the scary darkness that this world offers. He sets you and me up wherever we find ourselves everyday – office, among friends and family, in a college campus, etc – so that the light of hope God’s turned on inside us can shine and help someone who needs it.

Take a look again at the pic I took from the Lido Deck, 

Did you notice the moon hanging there in the dark of night? If there was a power outage at St Kitts and all the ground lights went out, the moon would still be shinning. Are you letting some of God’s light in you out?

You say, “Man, I feel like I am as dim as a flashlight with weak batteries.” Ok, then, I challenge you to do something unselfish and Jesus-like for someone today. It will bless his/her life and, like Jesus said, give praise to your Father in heaven. That in turn will motivate you and bless you and refresh you.

Let’s dream a little…can you imagine doing something that results in a thunderous applause from heaven? It’s worth a shot and it makes your life meaningful. That, in a sense, is the way to have fun with your bright light. 

One more thought, did you notice that Jesus didn’t not compare our words to light but our deeds. It’s easy to say this or that but hard to do that or this. People can claim to be all they want but do their actions follow?

Be light! You are that shinning city on a hill others need to see.

Thanks for reading. I’ve stopped writing blogs for a time in order to give writing a second book a chance but I am hopefully back to blogging for a while. Please leave me a note! 

  

How To Find Amazing Grace Somewhere Under The Rainbow

My darling wife took this shot of a rainbow yesterday. It was one of those ‘WOW’ moments for us. Most people usually think in 1 of 3 ways the moment they see the stunning beauty of a rainbow in the sky:

The that’s really pretty, thought – the reflection, refraction, and dispersion of light in the moisture of the atmosphere will turn this bunch to mush for a few moments. But that’s as far as it goes for them.

The God judged the earth with the flood once and He will do it again someday, thought – these people remember that God wiped out mankind through a flood thousands of years ago. The Bible says that God saw how wicked and evil people of that time were and decided to finish them up with a huge deluge. The story is found in Genesis chapter 6.

The that’s a beautiful picture of God’s grace, thought – these folk remember that the Lord rescued Noah, his wife, their 3 boys, their wives, and a bunch of animals from imminent destruction coming on earth.

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How To Find Hope For Life By The Sea Shore

I went by the Atlantic Ocean yesterday. As I took a quiet walk by the seashore in that relatively lonely beach, the water was calm but extremely cold. The wind was blowing, the dark clouds of a cold front were rolling in, and there was a lonely bird standing on the sand.

I don’t know how you feel about dark clouds, cool wind, unending wave sounds, cold water, and a lonely bird on a lonely beach, but it can make one sort of gloomy. Don’t get me wrong, I wasn’t turning to salty mush in that scene but stuff like that can suck the joy out of anyone. If nothing else, in moments like those the mind has a way of going the wrong way to places and memories that trigger sad emotions and feelings. It is then that you wonder about life, meaning, where you’ve been, and where you’re heading.

Isn’t it something how those mental trips we take usually end up with a memory of defeat in our past or a tough time we went through or a series of worries we have about what the future holds? We try to convince ourselves that we’re an ‘immovable rock’ but when despair hits, it can squeeze out the best in us.

 

As I continued to walk I noticed the rising tide creeping up the sand and wondered how far would it reach. Then, a crazy thought: What if it didn’t stop gaining ground and went over the sand dune, pass the hotels and onto the road and took over the homes near by? I know, I know… sounds like a ridiculous theme for a horror sci-fi movie.

But think about this, the only reason the tide doesn’t keep going and sweeps over the dry land swallowing everything in its path is because God doesn’t allow it.

The following Scripture is a question God posed to His man Job when Job was questioning God’s treatment of his life,

“Who decreed the boundaries of the seas when they gushed from the depths? Who clothed them with clouds and thick darkness and barred them by limiting their shores, and said, ‘Thus far and no farther shall you come, and here shall your proud waves stop’?” Job 38:8-11 TLB

In other words, God restricted the waters. Had God not done that, the little island in the Caribbean Sea that I grew up in would have disappeared! And, had the Lord not continued managing that up to this day, all life as we know it would cease to exist. Aren’t you glad God is Sovereign and merciful?

You may be wondering, Ok, soooo…where are you going with this, bro? Was there a purpose for your stroll at the beach? Yes, there was!

You may feel overwhelmed by your current situation and difficulty. But remember that God is watching and managing life. And just like the ocean tides, He will not let you or me be taken over anything that will wreck our lives for good.

You may wonder sometimes about how much more of a difficult thing you can take or whether God has forgotten you and left you to be utterly devastated by an unstopping wave of awful, lousy stuff. But take courage, God is by the side of those who love Him to help them overcome!

Please allow me to unload a few encouraging Bible verses on you:

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed.” Psalm 34:18 NLT

“The Lord is the defense of my life; Whom shall I dread?” Psalm 27:1 NASB

“Don’t be afraid, I’ve redeemed you. I’ve called your name. You’re mine. When you’re in over your head, I’ll be there with you. When you’re in rough waters, you will not go down. When you’re between a rock and a hard place, it won’t be a dead end—Because I am God, your personal God, The Holy of Israel, your Savior.” Isaiah 43:1-3 MSG

“Fear not, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed. I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will uphold you with my victorious right hand.” Isaiah 41:10 TLB

“My kindness is all you need. My power is strongest when you are weak.” 2Corinthians 12:9 CEV

Aren’t those great comforting words? There’s hope for life by the sea shore and in suburbia, not because there’s anything special about those places, but because there’s something special about God and the hope found in Him!

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How To Find Amazing Peace Among The Tombstones

I went for a walk among the tombstones yesterday. Your may think, Morbid? Weird? But it wasn’t my first time doing that sort of thing.

I quietly strolled around the small, real old cemetery near where I am writing this. I saw tombstones dating back to the early 1800’s! Some burial places have been reclaimed by nature with dates and names no longer recognizable. A handful of other crypts are recent.

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How To Be Strong When Life Is Unsettled

We were told that the big cruise liner we were traveling on was encountering strong contrary winds. But the skilled captain was making our ride as smooth and comfortable as possible. The boat stabilizers – whichever those are underneath the surface of the water – were working! But I quickly went back to our 6th floor balcony room and tried to capture some shots of the churning sea with my hand-dandi android. It had all became an adrenalin pumping ride!

Even the Lido Deck pool had mad waves!

Then, the rough accented Italian captain spoke through the loud speakers. Let me be honest, I have a hard time understanding people with heavy accents. It’s a little ironic because I am told that I sound like Ricky Ricardo from the old I Love Lucy Show… “Honey, ‘an’ home!”

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How To Reach Your Life Dreams

In this partial picture of the sea of undergraduate students pouring into the arena to get their diploma was one of my daughters. My excitement was hard to describe and my tears hard to contain. And when my daughter’s name was finally called out and she walked across the stage to receive her diploma, we yelled, screamed, and celebrated.

So, what does it take to make it? What’s it take to reach dreams?

Maybe your dream has nothing to do with graduation. Not everyone is made for school. Your dream may involve a career or owning your own house. Your dream may have to do with being debt free or for some of you reading this, you just want to make it through the last week of this year so you can start 2018 afresh and anew. Whichever… there are some principles at play in reaching dreams that we must pay attention to in order to get there, wherever ‘there’ may be to you.

But first, a refreshingly good and invigorating Bible verse penned down by the apostle Paul,

I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.”  Philippians 4:13

You know what the word ‘everything’ involves? Anything! God sets no boundaries here and He is a ‘CAN DO’ God!!

So, go ahead, have fun and dream big.

Our third president and one of our founding fathers, Thomas Jefferson once said, “I like the dreams of the future better than the history of the past.”

Then, have a goal in mind. Seth Godin said,

“The thing about goals is that living without them is a lot more fun, in the short run. It seems to me, though, that the people who get things done, who lead, who grow and who make an impact… those people have goals.” Lydia Sweatt (https://www.success.com/article/18-motivational-quotes-about-successful-goal-setting)

Goals give our lives something to aim at. Direction. Motivation. They are the kind of thing that helps us get up and get going in the morning.

Then there’s the issue of perseverance. It took me six years to go through college. Some whizz through it in less than four while others take ten to complete it. Regardless, have a stick-to-it mentality that refuses to give up.

Glue yourself…

…to the ‘whatever it takes’ mentality.

Also, keep in mind that nothing worthwhile ever comes easy.

I heard of the side of a guy’s barn that had a perfectly aimed arrow hitting the bulls eye square in the middle, a display of incredible accuracy. Someone asked him about his amazing aim. But the man answered that he had shot the arrow first and then drew the bulls eye around it. What?? Some of us are looking for short cuts to success… there aren’t any!

Work at reaching your dreams and work at it some more. Whether is doing lots of reps in the field or research in the lab or trying and failing and learning from that so you can try some more and fail some more until you finally make it.

Newt Gingrich writes, “The Wright Brothers failed five hundred times over five years before they flew.” Newt Gingrich, Understanding Trump (New York, NY: Hachette Book Group, 2017), 44.

Always remember that this journey we’re all in, is a process, a marathon run, not a hundred yard sprint. Do what you do well and finish strong!

Another element to reaching dreams involves community.

I heard someone say many years ago that teamwork makes the dream work.

There will be people in your life right now that may be with you but are not for you. I wrote about them in my book, Hecklers In Your Crowd: Silencing The Voices That Hold You Back (it’s worth reading, btw). You’ve got to watch your back about them.

But, there will be a bunch others that believe in you and want to see you succeed and do well. Walk along with them and gain what you can from their experience, ability, knowledge, and willingness to work with you and you.

Graduation was an amazing time for our family but my daughter’s journey is just getting off the ground. Much more is ahead. And she will be successful! God has loaded both of my daughters with sharp minds, abilities, and a people caring personality. Their journeys are just beginning, and it may not be easy, but life is fun and the payoff in the end is worth it!

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How To Celebrate Life One Moment At A Time

Many years ago I decided to help around the house by cleaning the inside of our old oven. I grabbed a pair of gloves, a steel wool Brillo pad, a bowl with water, turned the light on inside the oven so I could see but then took the bulb out so it would not explode if any of the water hit the hot glass, and went to task. Scrubbing hard and without thinking I stuck the steel wool Brillo pad in the hole where the bulb used to be and… you know what’s coming… I got the shock of a lifetime, tingles and everything! I jumped back a few feet and sat there numb. My hair was standing like a porcupine and it never returned to its original form.

I hope that true story made you grin. Smiling, that upward turn of the mouth and eyebrows, along with the natural relaxation of the earlobes in lighthearted moments, is critically important if we want to survive Thanksgiving and Christmas this year. The wise king wrote,

“Being cheerful keeps you healthy. It is slow death to be gloomy all the time.” Proverbs 17:22, GNT

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