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How To Find Ultimate Peace In Your Life Storm

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In the Gulf Coast of Florida furious storms form in a hurry! The deep thunder rolls in the distance, winds pick up in a hurry, waves crash on shore, the lightning show becomes visible, and you look for cover. When this happens there’s an intense desire in me to capture some intense pics but better judgment often prevails and I stay safe indoors until it all passes by.

About an hour and a half from where this picture was taken a seriously bad storm formed in the city of Orlando, Florida, at Pulse Nightclub. And the light show  was not the electrical kind but one coming from the weapons of an assassin.

Terror ensued as people ran for safety but it was not to be for all, 49 died (not counting the gunman) and 53 were wounded. The worse massacre in America history.

All of a sudden and out of nowhere the worst storm of life unleashed on many as family members received the dreaded news that their loved ones were dead. My eyes filled with tears; my heart totally broke for those facing the storm. Then it dawned on me that people I know and love could have been there that night and part of the body count.

I thank the Lord that those I love are safe today but wonder how anyone can overcome the pain that comes from the whirlwind of events from that night at Pulse Nightclub.

I learned a long time ago that when appropriate human words are missing the perfect Word of God can make all the difference in the world to someone facing a furious life-storm.

God’s thoughts in the Bible supernaturally fill the void in our souls that have been left there by heartache and loss. (Tweet that)

Maybe your storm that has nothing to do with someone’s sudden death but you are still hurting and wondering what’s next for you.

My dad’s favorite Bible is one I encourage you to internalize, digest, and make a part of your daily life. Write it down on a sticky and place it somewhere visible to you throughout your day:

“Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.” Isaiah 41:10 (NLT)

I may not understand why bad things happen to good people but I understand that there’s a promise here, a promise of God’s loving presence and power when we need Him most. He will lift us when we are fallen and breathe courage in us when the wind’s been taken off our sails and the rug’s been pulled from under our feet.

Gandhi once said:

“When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it–always.” (Quotes about Victory; http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/victory)

History has also taught us that Jesus Christ is the embodiment of Truth and Love. (John 14:6)

In your storm turn to Him in faith. Know that the Lord is so close to you that if you could you see Him, His shadow would be on you.

God wants to wipe your tears, let Him. Talk to Him. Hang on to Him with every bit of emotional strength you have left.

Orlando our prayers are with you!

 

 

 

How to effectively handle the death of a loved friend

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I recently had the honor of being present when a dear friend went to heaven. If you’ve ever had that rare privilege you know all too well the mix of emotions involved: tears, times of silence and prayer, and even though rare, light moments of laughter when a fun memory of the deceased is shared by those present.

There’s nothing like a death to remind us of the reality of our own mortality. All of a sudden what the wise man wrote makes lots of sense,

“It is better to go to a house of mourning than to go to a house of feasting, for death is the destiny of everyone;
the living should take this to heart.” Ecclesiastes 7:2 (NIV)

Of course we like partying more than sadness and as a result many live as if they will never have to face eternity.

The one inevitable fact of life is that all of us are going to meet our Maker one day. We each need to be ready for that moment.

The only good thing about this bad thing called death is that it gives us access to an afterlife in heaven.

Maybe we ought to look at dying as one of those necessary evils we all must go through in order to enter and enjoy the amazing world God has created for those who love Him.

And by all accounts of the imagination heaven is an incredible place!

The worst day in heaven will be a thousand times better than the greatest day on earth. (Feel free to Tweet that).

Why have a limited view of the eternal place our limitless God has prepared? (I devote an entire chapter to heaven in my new book Hecklers In Your Choir: Silencing The Voices That Hold You Back – yet to be published)

The only way to face the death of someone you love is with faith that this life is not all there is and that you’re going to see your friend again one day. That’s the kind of hope that keeps us going.

My friend was a faithful believer in Jesus Christ and that made his passing much easier to handle.

As his family and friends gathered around him one last time I was struck with the thought that I have to really make spending time with my loved ones a priority.

In over thirty years of ministry and dealing with people not once have I heard someone at the end of life say, “I wish I would have spent more time at the office.” No! What people regret most is the time they wasted on the unimportant.

YOLO! (You Only Live Once) Be intentional about squeezing the juice out of every moment you have with those you love.

Leonardo da Vinci had this amazing insight into life. He said that the average human looks without seeing, listens without hearing, touches without feeling, eats without tasting, moves without physical awareness, inhales without awareness of odor or fragrance, and talks without thinking.

That can be me, oblivious to everything other than what I am focused on. What’s your heart fixed on? Your work? The here and now? Profit?

How about, beginning today, you start making God and family your absolute priority?

Make your moments count! Call, text, send a random pic, email someone you love and live knowing there’s a heaven to gain one day.

So, what do you think? How do you handle the death of people you love? Please leave me a comment.